essentia:

ROTFL!

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onlinecounsellingcollege:

Signs of a Healthy Relationship

A healthy relationship means that both members of the couple are…

1.    Communicating with each other: Talking about problems without screaming and shouting; listening to each other, and respecting their viewpoint; being willing to adapt and to sometimes change their mind.

2.    Showing respect for one another: Valuing the other person’s culture, beliefs, viewpoints, opinions and boundaries. Also, treating each other in a kind and caring way.

3.    Demonstrating and conveying trust: Each person is trustworthy and trusts the other person – because they have been shown that they are worthy of that trust.

4.    Honest with each other: Both are open and honest – but are private as well; and they don’t demand the other person tells them everything.

5.    Equals: They make joint decisions and treat each other well. No person calls the shots or determines all the rules.

6.    Able to enjoy their own personal space: As well as spending time together, they spend time on their own. They’re respect the fact they’re different, and they need their own life, too.

7.    Decisions about sex are discussed, and are consensual: They discuss sex together, including birth control. There’s no one individual sets the rules and standards here.

Signs of an unhealthy relationship

An unhealthy relationship develops where one, or both, of the partners is…

1.    Failing to communicate: Problems are ignored, or not talked about at all. One or both don’t really listen, and they rarely compromise.

2.    Acting in ways that are disrespectful: One or both are inconsiderate toward the other person; and they don’t behave in ways that send the message that they care.

3.    Refusing to trust the other person: One or both is suspicion of their partner’s loyalty. Hence, they make false accusations, or won’t believe the truth.

4.    Acting in a way that is dishonest: One or both is deceptive, or they lie and hide the truth.

5.    Acting in a controlling way: One person thinks that they should set the one who rules, controls the other person, and say how things should be.

6.    Beginning to feel squashed and smothered / cutting themselves off from friends and family: One partner is possessive, or feels threatened and upset, when the other’s with their family or spends time with their friends.

7.    Attempting to pressurise the other into sexual activity / refusing to talk openly about birth control: One partner wants the other to participate in sex, or to engage in different practices against that’s person’s will. Or, one of the partners stops using birth control, or expects the other person to “take care of all that.”

Signs of an abusive relationship

An abusive relationship develops when one of the parties…

1.    Starts to communicate in ways that are abusive: When arguments occur, one of the partners screams and cusses, or they verbally threaten or attack the other person.

2.    Shows disrespect through acting in abusive ways: This is where one of the partners abuse, harms or threatens the physical safety of the other individual.

3.    Wrongly accuses their partner of flirting or cheating: One of the partners is convinced – with no real grounds – that their partner is cheating or having an affair. Thus, they lash out verbally, or hurt, the accused partner.

4.    Refuses to accept responsibility for the abuse: When they fly into a rage or act in ways that are abusive, they miminise their actions and refuse to accept blame. They may even blame their partner for “causing the abuse.”

5.    Starts to control the other partner: One partner has no say as the other sets the rules – and arguing against that simply leads to more abuse.

6.    Does what they can to isolate their partner: One partner has control of who the other person sees, the way they spend their time – and, even, clothes they buy and wear. Thus, they start to lose their confidence and personality.

7.    Forces sexual activity: The frequency, type and circumstances for sex are determined by one partner – and the other must comply. If they don’t acquiesce it leads to violence or abuse. Also, sometimes violence is included in the sex.

wethemuslims:

INNA ILLAHI WA INNA ILAYHI RAJIUN,

6 Rajab 1433/27 May 2012
SHOCKING!!

Those are not sacks of rice. Those are dead bodies, mostly children, massacred by Bashar’s regime yesterday in full view of the world that continues to remain silent on Syria. Until when? What more will it take?

Spread this pic for awareness and keep the people of Syria in your dua!!

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remorsecode:

orangemarshmallow:

So I read that Iranians have enough uranium or whatever the fuck they need to make 5 nuclear bombs. Are you fucking serious?
They obviously want to start WW3. Crazy arseholes…

Israel is estimated to have 200-400 nuclear bombs. They obviously want to start WW3, 4, 5, 6, 7 and maybe 8. Crazy arseholes.

Yeah, I think all Iran wants is to be left the fuck alone.

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themajesticbim:

witheredroots:

resistapathy:

thefortunatemuslim:

remorsecode:

themajesticbim:

morninghoran:

since when is israel an european country?

Since when is “Israel” a country?

Israel being in Eurovision and taking part in the UEFA Champion’s league is the most…

Zionist: YOU CANNOT WIN THIS ARGUMENT AGAINST OUR PEOPLE.

Reblogging for win.

wethemuslims:

Despite the busyness in this dunya, let us not forget the things that matter the most.

beautifulqalb:

amillionexpectations:

samirathejerk:

I don’t know much about trigger warnings but I do talk about my abuse in this.

This is hard for me to write because I’m going back to places I never travel to and digging up memories that I promised I wouldn’t but I think…

beautifulqalb:

Something that is forbidden by Allah in the Qur’an or Hadith.

Not something forbidden by bored people that don’t like something.

*This message has been brought to you by someone tired of being told everything in life is haraam.

firsttimeuser:

Algeria by Dana Kyndrová